A Proverbs 20 Man: Who can find a Faithful Man?

Proverbs 20:5-7

5 Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water,

But a man of understanding will draw it out.

6 Most men will proclaim each his own [a]goodness,

But who can find a faithful man?

7 The righteous man walks in his integrity;

His children are blessed after him.

Proverbs 20:5-7 provides insights into the nature and characteristics of how to know who is a godly man:

The godly man:

• Repents when he sins (1 John 1:9)

• Considers himself dead to sin but alive to God (Romans 6:1–4, 11)

• Seeks to remain humble rather than exalt himself (Proverbs 27:2)

• Is a servant rather than demanding that he be served (Mark 10:45)

• Leads by example (1 Timothy 4:12)

• (When married) loves his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25)

• Lives in sexual purity, honoring God with his body (1 Corinthians 6:18; Romans 12:1–2)

• Seeks to be continually filled with the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 5:18; Act 13:52; Galatians 5:25)

• Desires to please the Lord more than himself (2 Corinthians 5:9)

• Bears fruit for the kingdom of God (John 15:5–8)

Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out:

This verse suggests that people often hold deep thoughts and insights within themselves. However, it takes a person of understanding to draw out and appreciate the wisdom that lies beneath the surface. It highlights the importance of seeking and valuing wise counsel.

Most men will proclaim each his own goodness, but who can find a faithful man?

Here, the verse acknowledges a tendency for people to speak well of themselves, proclaiming their own goodness. However, it poses a rhetorical question, emphasizing the rarity of finding a truly faithful and trustworthy person, it takes a discerning approach to evaluating claims of goodness from men.

The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him:

This verse underscores the positive outcome of a righteous life lived with integrity. The righteous person, who adheres to moral and ethical principles, is said to walk with integrity. 

In summary, these verses offer reflections on the complexity of human nature, the challenge of finding genuine faithfulness, and the positive impact of righteousness and integrity on both individuals and their families.